When I go on holidays I never take care of packing, my wife is there to deal with that. she is better at planning things we should take with us and she just tends to know what is necessary to take when one is on holidays. Girls and generally women tend to have that specific something inside their heads that gives them the special gift to organize things better than men are capable of doing it. men care only about some particular elements that are necessary to be taken when going away. Haven"t you ever encountered such a situation in your life? I have met a lot of people who get it the same way. They don"t just seem to play their own roles in the relationship. Women are responsible for a certain group of duties, and men for some other kind of things, you know how that works, don"t you? When we were about to go away to Germany last summer we wanted to take little Matthew with us but we couldn"t manage to pack everything to one place. I told Susan not to worry about cot beds we had to take. I wanted to take the two cot beds to the car so that It was not a problem at all to nobody. She wouldn"t be able to go with those heavy cot beds. You know what I mean? ladies are made for different things. taking that under consideration may result in something that she would find really amusing.